You can add an OR
relation to the meta query and also get pages with no _wp_page_template
meta key:
$args = array(
'post_type' => 'page',
'posts_per_page' => -1,
'order' => 'ASC',
'orderby' => 'title',
'meta_query' => array(
'relation' => 'OR',
array(
'key' => '_wp_page_template',
'value' => 'template-rubrique.php',
'compare' => '!=',
),
array(
'key' => '_wp_page_template',
'compare' => 'NOT EXISTS',
)
)
);