Was able to figure out that the meta value was being stored as a string, which doesn’t play nice with the meta query.
So what I had to do was do a like comparison with the serialized string version of my meta value. The meta query ended up like this
$args = array (
'meta_query' => array(
array(
'key' => 'following',
'value' => serialize( strval( $uid ) ),
'compare' => 'LIKE',
)
)
);
for more insght, check out this other post that helped me