This answer here fixed it for me:
https://wordpress.stackexchange.com/a/243732/138177
add_filter( 'comments_open', 'my_comments_open', 10, 2 );
function my_comments_open( $open, $post_id ) {
$post = get_post( $post_id );
if ( 'myCustomPostType' == $post->post_type )
$open = true;
return $open;
}