the only filter hook called in wp_dropdown_users()
function is wp_dropdown_users
which pass a string of the dropdown in an html form so you can manipulate this dropdown at that hook with some major REGEX.
A better solution would be to use get_users() and create the dropdown your self, something like this:
$selected = 1; //just for example, you can get that by get_post_meta()
$siteusers = get_users(); // you can pass filters and option
$re="";
if (count($siteusers) > 0){
$re="<select name="users_with_email">";
foreach ($siteusers as $user) {
$re .= '<option value="' . $user->ID . '">'.$user->user_nicename . ' ('.$user->user_email .')</option>';
}
$re .= '</select>';
$re = str_replace('value="' . $selected . '"','value="' . $selected . '" selected="selected"', $re );
}
echo $re;