i have found a solution, making a custom SQL query
here is the code ( using WPML )
$startday = date("Y-m-d");
if ( defined( 'ICL_LANGUAGE_CODE' ) ) {
$lang = ICL_LANGUAGE_CODE;
}
//echo $startday;
global $wpdb,$post;
$results = $wpdb->get_results( "SELECT * FROM wp_posts, `wp_mec_dates` AS mecd, wp_icl_translations WHERE wp_posts.ID = mecd.post_id and post_status="publish" AND wp_icl_translations.language_code="$lang" AND dstart>'$startday' and wp_posts.ID = wp_icl_translations.element_id ORDER BY dstart" );
foreach ($results as $post) {
setup_postdata($post);
$event_permalink = get_the_permalink();
$event_date = $post->dstart;
$new_event_date = date("d/m", strtotime($event_date));
$event_title = get_the_title();
echo $new_event_date . ' - <a href="'.$event_permalink.'" title="'.$event_title.'">' . substr($event_title,0,38) .'</a><br />';
}
wp_reset_postdata();