If it doesn’t work anyway, what is the harm of trying to do it right way?
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You do not use
wp_enqueue_script()for most of scripts. You should. -
Loading two copies of jQuery is wrong. The fact that trying to fix it breaks something does not make it less wrong.
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From quick look you have a lot of inline JavaScript and not using noConflict wrappers consistently, see link above for details.