You are not providing the correct parameter to wp_get_nav_menu_object() function. It needs the menu ID or menu slug but you are providing the menu theme location. Obviously, I can not tell you what is the ID or slug of your menu.
One way of getting the menu ID of the menu assigned to theme location is using get_nav_menu_locations():
$menu = wp_get_nav_menu_object( get_nav_menu_locations()['primary'] );
echo $menu->count;