Your tax_query is using an invalid field
type. Try:
$args = array(
'post_type' => 'films',
'post__not_in' => array($post->ID),
'showposts'=> 3,
'tax_query' => array(
array(
'taxonomy' => 'actors',
'field' => 'term_id',
'terms' => $tax_IDs
)
)
);
See the Taxonomy Parameters of WP_Query for more options if that doesn’t wok.