Export/Import like you would the data for any other WordPress install:
On the development site:
Dashboard -> Tools -> Export -> All Content
(save file)- Package up the Theme files as “theme-name.zip”
- Make note of any custom settings
On the live site:
- Install the custom Theme
- `Dashboard -> Tools -> Import -> WordPress data file (upload file)
- Change any custom settings noted above
EDIT:
If you still want to try a database export, you could try network-enabling one of the many database-backup Plugins in the repository, such as WP-DBmanager, and running it from your dev site.