WordPress repository forbids me call wp-load.php in non-WordPress file

To send HTTP headers just do it early enough. On the action wp_loaded for example. Don’t forget to call exit; when you are done, so WordPress doesn’t send its own headers later.

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Hata!: SQLSTATE[HY000] [1045] Access denied for user 'divattrend_liink'@'localhost' (using password: YES)