There is only one hook for threaded comments depth – thread_comments_depth_max
and it sets max value for depth ( default is 10 ), you can use this filter and set max depth fox non-Super Admins number that you want.
if ( ! current_user_can( 'manage_network' ) ) {
mamaduka_thread_comments_depth_max( $maxdeep ){
return 5; // or any number you want
}
add_filter( 'thread_comments_depth_max', 'mamaduka_thread_comments_depth_max' );