i got a answer from another thread.. which is bellow
add_filter('nav_menu_css_class', 'discard_menu_classes', 10, 2);
function discard_menu_classes($classes, $item) {
$classes = array_filter(
$classes,
create_function( '$class',
'return in_array( $class,
array( "current-menu-item", "current-menu-parent" ) );' )
);
return array_merge(
$classes,
(array)get_post_meta( $item->ID, '_menu_item_classes', true )
);
}
ref : http://wordpress.stackexchange.com/questions/30417/removing-all-classes-from-nav-menu-except-current-menu-item-and-current-menu-par