Try this instead:
add_action( "woocommerce_email_after_order_table", "my_woocommerce_email_after_order_table", 10, 1);
function my_woocommerce_email_after_order_table( $order ) {
$my_gift_wrap_checkbox = get_post_meta( $order->id, "my_gift_wrap_checkbox", true );
$gift_wrap = $my_gift_wrap_checkbox ? 'Yes please!' : 'No thank you.';
echo '<p><strong>Gift wrap?: </strong>' . $gift_wrap . '</p>';
if ( $my_gift_wrap_checkbox ) {
echo '<p><strong>Gift wrap instructions: </strong>' . get_post_meta( $order->id, "my_gift_wrap_field", true ) . '</p>';
}
}