ahh nvm, sorted it:
jQuery(document).ready(function($){
$('.addtocart').submit(function(){
var data = {action: 'my_special_action',post:$('.addtocart').serialize() };
$.post("<?php echo admin_url('admin-ajax.php'); ?>", data,
function(response){
$(".eshopajax").insertAfter(this).fadeIn(100).html(response).fadeOut(3000);
setTimeout (clearCart,200);
setTimeout (doRequest,500);
setTimeout (clearRequest,3000);
});
function doRequest(){
var tdata = {action: 'my_cart'};
$.post("<?php echo admin_url('admin-ajax.php'); ?>", tdata,
function(response){
$(".ajaxcart").insertAfter(this).fadeIn(100).html(response);
});
}
function clearRequest(){
$(".eshopajax").empty();
}
function clearCart(){
$(".ajaxcart").insert();
}
return false;
});
});