First off, I just want to say AMEN to this question. There are not a lot of good, reliable calendar plugins out there. I’ve struggled with this myself.
Judging by your list of event calendars you’ve tried, you’ve just about exhausted the list of decent to reputable plugins. I honestly think what you’re looking for in a plugin, you’re not going to be able to find UNLESS you do something custom (either 100% custom or customizing an existing plugin).
Personally, The Events Calendar by Modern Tribe is a superb calendar. Not only is it a great calendar plugin, it’s relatively simple to modify/customize and the documentation for the plugin is WAY better than just about every other plugin on your list.
They also have support forums that are regularly maintained and used by the MT team.
http://tri.be/wordpress-events-calendar/
Hope this helps.