You can use has_nav_menu()
to check to see if the location has one assigned to it. If it does, use wp_get_nav_menu_items()
to duplicate the menu, then assign it to the location you register in your theme.
Here’s what I have in mind. It’s off the top of my head and will need more code and testing, but hopefully it’s a good start for you:
function wpse112672_menus() {
if( has_nav_menu( 'old_theme_menu_location' ) {
$old_menu = wp_get_nav_menu_items( 'old_menu_id' );
register_nav_menu( 'new_theme_menu_location' );
$new_menu = wp_nav_menu( $args );
return $new_menu;
} else {
return wp_page_menu();
}
}