Custom WP Query with neither ASC or DESC

Don’t think the effort worth it to do it with generating appropriate mysql statements as you can just use three queries, or sort the posts after you have the results of the query with both ways resulting in a mostly readable code. Main reason not to choose the above is if performance is critical.

Another option is to use some different meta field and store some integer value representing the 3 states, but if you are using a plugin that generates the property value status this might be hard work to figure all the place in which the new meta field can be added.

And if you feel like a mysql guru you can probably order by the value of FIND_IN_SET. You will need to figure out which filter to use to override the
query. One pointer is this snippet – https://gist.github.com/mikeschinkel/6402058#file-find-in-set-php but I didn’t inspect that code.

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