The edit_theme_options
capability should allow the user to edit the sidebar as described on this page :
http://codex.wordpress.org/Appearance_Widgets_SubPanel
Code to add to functions.php
$role = get_role('editor');
$role->add_cap('edit_theme_options');
Edit:
This should work to prevent editor accessing themes or menus
function custom_admin_menu() {
$user = new WP_User(get_current_user_id());
if (!empty( $user->roles) && is_array($user->roles)) {
foreach ($user->roles as $role)
$role = $role;
}
if($role == "editor") {
remove_submenu_page( 'themes.php', 'themes.php' );
remove_submenu_page( 'themes.php', 'nav-menus.php' );
}
}
add_action('admin_menu', 'custom_admin_menu');
I haven’t had chance to test this, but it only removes them from the menu they may still be able to access them by typing in the URL directly.