WP_Query arguments relation shows AND instead of OR

Your argument structure is not correct. It should be like

[meta_query] => Array
    (
        [0] => Array
            (
                [key] => state
                [value] => a
                [compare] => LIKE
            )

        [1] => Array
            (
                [key] => state
                [value] => b
                [compare] => LIKE
            )

        [2] => Array
            (
                [key] => state
                [value] => c
                [compare] => LIKE
            )

        [relation] => OR
    )

But it is like

[meta_query] => Array
        (
            [relation] => OR
            [0] => Array
                (
                    [0] => Array
                        (
                            [relation] => OR
                            [0] => Array
                                (
                                    [key] => state
                                    [value] => a
                                    [compare] => LIKE
                                )

                        )

                    [1] => Array
                        (
                            [relation] => OR
                            [0] => Array
                                (
                                    [key] => state
                                    [value] => b
                                    [compare] => LIKE
                                )

                        )

                    [2] => Array
                        (
                            [relation] => OR
                            [0] => Array
                                (
                                    [key] => state
                                    [value] => c
                                    [compare] => LIKE
                                )

                        )

                )

        )

Change your code in this way to match recommended structure

$statelist = array();
$args = array(
    'post_type'     => 'post',
    'meta_query'    => array(
    'relation'      => 'OR')
);

if($_GET['state'] != NULL)
{
    $state_arr = explode( ',', $_GET['state']);
    for($i=0; $i<count($state_arr); $i++)
    {
        //tried also with relation = OR for first entry
        $current_arr = array(
            'key' => 'state',
            'value' => $state_arr[$i],
            'compare' => 'LIKE'
        );
        array_push($statelist, $current_arr);
    }
}

if(count($statelist) >= 1) {
    $statelist['relation'] = 'OR';
    $args['meta_query'] = $statelist;
}

Ref: https://codex.wordpress.org/Class_Reference/WP_Meta_Query

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