Here is the solution I came up with, that works properly.
<form method="get" action="" onchange="submit();">
<div class="input-group">
<?php
global $wpdb;
$meta_key = 'item_oem';
$data = $wpdb->get_results($wpdb->prepare( "SELECT DISTINCT meta_value FROM $wpdb->postmeta WHERE meta_key = %s", $meta_key) , ARRAY_N ); ?>
<select class="custom-select" id="oems" aria-label="oems" name="item_oem" >
<option selected>Search By OEM</option>
<?php foreach( $data as $value ): ?>
<option value="<?php echo $value[0]; ?>"><?php echo $value[0]; ?> </option>
<?php endforeach; ?>
</select>
<div class="input-group-append">
<a href="/inventory" class="btn btn-secondary" type="button">Clear Filter</a>
</div>
</div>
</form>