Installing One Plugin on a Few Blogs on a MultiSite
The plugins folder is shared. You can install one copy of the plugin and activate it on three blogs and not the others. If you don;t want the others to be aware of the plugin’s existence… you’ll have to use another plugin to exclude it. http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/restrict-multisite-plugins/ or http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/exclude-plugins/