This cannot be done only by querying database. Firstly, you have to iterate through all items and create array of posts grouped by dates.
$args = array(
'posts_per_page' => -1,
'post_type' => 'event',
'meta_key' => 'event_date',
'orderby' => 'meta_value_num',
'order' => 'ASC'
);
$wpquery = new WP_Query($args);
$posts = $wpquery->get_posts();
$ordered_posts = array();
foreach ($posts as $post) {
$meta_value = get_post_meta($post->ID, 'event_date', true);
if (!$meta_value) {
continue;
}
$date = date('mY', strtotime($meta_value));
$ordered_posts[$date][] = $post;
}
Next, you have to iterate through grouped array to display divs as you want:
foreach ($ordered_posts as $post_date => $posts) { ?>
<div id="<?php echo $post_date; ?>">
<?php foreach ($posts as $post): ?>
<div class="post <?php echo $post_date; ?>">
<?php echo $post->post_title; ?>
</div>
<?php endforeach; ?>
</div>
<? }