The page must be published, as detailed in the “Adding Items to a Menu” section of the WordPress Codex WordPress Menu User Guide:
You can add different link types into your menu, these are split between panes left of the menu you’re currently editing.
- Locate the pane entitled Pages.
- Within this pane, select the View All link to bring up a list of all the currently published Pages on your site.
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Follow the link to see the rest of the steps if you need full instructions for adding a page to your menu.