If you created a custom widget, created a file by example class.my-widget.php
containing the class definition of the custom widget, something like this:
class my_widget extends WP_Widget {
public function __construct() {
//logic here
}
public function widget($args, $instance) {
//logic here
}
public function form($instance) {
//logic here
}
public function update($new_instance, $old_instance) {
//logic here
}
}
//registering my widget so its available in the back-end
add_action('widgets_init', function() {
register_widget('my_widget');
});
and the file its inside a folder in your theme like this:
you have to load that file, to do that you have to add this to your functions.php
:
//lets define a constant for the URL to your theme folder
define('YOUR_THEME_FOLDER_PATH', trailingslashit(get_template_directory(__FILE__)));
//lets load the custom widget
require_once (YOUR_THEME_FOLDER_PATH . 'inc/class.my-widget.php');
the inc/
part can be updated to the folder the file is.