how to redirect to another post without getting headers already sent error?

Assuming you are in the front end, you can use template_redirect hook to achieve what you want:

function bbrew_check_wholesaler() {

    global $post;

    /**
     * If we are viewing a single post page that has the specified category "foobar"
     * and the user does not have the specified role "myrole" then redirect the user
     * away from this page.
     */
    if ( is_single() && has_category('foobar', $post) && ! check_is_role('myrole') ) {
        wp_safe_redirect(home_url('away-from-post'));
        exit;
    }

}

add_action( 'template_redirect', 'bbrew_check_wholesaler' );

Note: in the above example we can forgoe the use of is_user_logged_in() as the subsequent call to wp_get_current_user() will return an empty WP_User object if the user is logged out.

I would adjust your check_is_role() function to the following:

function check_is_role($role){

    $current_user = wp_get_current_user();

    if ( in_array($role, $current_user->roles ) 
        return true;
    } else {
        return false;
    }

}

…as the specified role you are checking for could exist anywhere within the array return on the roles property and only at index 0.

You can further extend the above callback function with,

• has_category()
• has_tag()
• has_term()

…in order to determine whether the post object has the specified term or terms required.