ORA-30926: unable to get a stable set of rows in the source tables

This is usually caused by duplicates in the query specified in USING clause. This probably means that TABLE_A is a parent table and the same ROWID is returned several times.

You could quickly solve the problem by using a DISTINCT in your query (in fact, if ‘Y’ is a constant value you don’t even need to put it in the query).

Assuming your query is correct (don’t know your tables) you could do something like this:

  MERGE INTO table_1 a
      USING 
      (SELECT distinct ta.ROWID row_id
              FROM table_1 a ,table_2 b ,table_3 c
              WHERE a.mbr = c.mbr
              AND b.head = c.head
              AND b.type_of_action <> '6') src
              ON ( a.ROWID = src.row_id )
  WHEN MATCHED THEN UPDATE SET in_correct = 'Y';